i miss your class last thursday,and i miss your food for the brain portion. Anyways, honestly i like your class in philo 15 it seems that i have many new things learned ech meeting,i know your son jan because im an applicant in AISEC and hes realy a nice guy though i havent seen him na coz im not that active anymore in it. Maam,i have this problem bout my lovelife ahem!i hope this is not a burden to you,well, me and my bf just broke up lets say 4 months ago,now he wants our relationship back but the problem is he has this close friend daw a girl they got close when we broke up kasi sabi nya yong girl daw ang nag catch sa kanya nong time na brokenhearted cya, angel pa nga ang tawag nya sa girl,wat bothers me is that napag-usapan sila na may relationship beacuse of their closeness pero wala naman talaga close lang talaga silang masyado, honestly speaking im realy jealous and i cant blame myself to feel like that dahil theres reason naman,my problem is hindi ko alam na tama bang makipagbalik sa kanya na everytime ma mention yong name sa girl nag-aaway kami,actually maam i told him how i feel everytime magkasama sila nang close friend nya pati barcada nya galit sa kanya for hes always on the company of his "close friend",maam pls help me im really confuse alam na nya na nagseselos ako pero ang sagot nya palagi is sana maintindihan ko daw cya,sana naman din maintindihan nya ako.I guess my letter is too long na,im hoping for your answer na lang.Thanks and have a great day!
Dear Ms. Dy,
It appears that your bf is not sensitive enough with your feelings. Possibly he is confused whom he really loves--your or the other girl. Two options: you can continue with the relationship, trust him and believe in what he tells you (with a grain of salt, of course!), be strong, and fight for your man--this means being more loving, attentive, and understanding. Or you can tell him to come back to you when he is really sure that it is you he loves. This will take time, a lot of sleepless nights, anxiety, and more feelings of jealousy on your part. If you were to ask me, I'll take the latter option. And, there is pala a third option: forget him and find a new love!