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From: Gerlie G. Clavano
Category: Philosophy of Love
Date: 20 Nov 2000
The most complex but the most wonderful thing to happen in your life is being inlove. To love means everything, to sacrifice, accept, hope, fantasize and drea. It is to sacrifice because you've got to accept that you have different worlds, likes and dislikes, but then you have to face the reality that this is what the person is that you should learn to love what the person loves. To love is to accept that he or she has weaknesses, that there are factors you have to consider, that it is the person's personhood that you love and you have to take it as it is.To love means to hope, to fantasize and dream. To hope against hope that you will be together someday spending the best things in life. To fantasize that you are already there having the time of your life that you and your loved one alone could spend. To dream that in the future you may have your family already but the sweetness that you share will always remain, eventhough you are already in your oldest age and you can longer make love but memories are still there and both you still enjoy thinking about it, fantasizing and hoping that you can still do it the way you did it before.
You can say that you are in love if you maybe with your lover all throughout the and as if 24hours is not enough to spend it with him or her. That you can talk about a lot of thing even the most trivial one and you enjoy it. That if you can conversed with each other as if only the two of you are in this world focusing to one another. You maybe together always when you are awake but then while you sleep you still want the person to be with, to share to and to dream of. That you may have the worst of your fights but at the end you know that you would be reconciled and after that the relationship becomes stronger and better than ever, after all those fights you know that it is still both of you who will live together sharing the most wonderful things in life.
Love is wanting somebody to be with you the rest of your life sharing the innermost element that you have making you the person that you are. It is going through odds in life and still clinging to that feeling no matter what. It is knowing that what you have will end up badly either by death or by a misunderstanding and yet you take the risk because you know that love is well worth it...